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09
Aug
11

DISCOVERING HAT YAI, THAILAND : A TEMPLE, A BEACH & LOTSA SEAFOODS & BREAKFAST GONE BAD!

One of the images of Buddha in Wat Hat Yai Nai

On our second day in Hat Yai, Thailand, my family and I started the day by eating a hearty breakfast (for us but not theoretically & practically for the heart) at the Food Loft of New Seasons Hotel. The morning meals were inclusive of the 3D2N accomodation package we availed.

Guests were provided a set menu that has butter+jam and toasts, coffee or tea,  and a variety of local and continental breakfast to choose from.  My options were artery-clogging bacon strips and slices of ham with sunny side up eggs then, I feared Salmonellosis, I had my eggs scrambled the next morning.

Delightful breakfast gone bad!

Everything was fine until a problem in communication happened.  Tina and I opted to have extra fried rice.  Knowing that the staff (and most Thai, let’s admit it!)  can speak little English,  I took extra effort in explaining to the wait staff our add-on orders.

Several minutes of patient waiting, no fried rice landed on our table. We called the attention of the wait staffs and politely (with a smile), made a follow up on our extra order. After slicing my bacon strips into bits, thankfully, fried rice arrived but the orders were taken and delivered wrongly. They were plateful, complete with fried pork and vinegar and side dishes (as shown on photo above, which my parents ordered for themselves)! I explained with utmost courtesy (you know how food people can do to your plates, so be very extra good in dealing with them), that we only asked for 2 plates of fried rice and nothing more–not a complete set of breakfast meal.

They immediately got the plates and returned to us with just fried rice on it.  I and Tina enjoyed our breakfast (who would not with those bacon strips?–double order please! hehehe!)  But I was again astonished when they made me sign the bill after I told them that Gabby’s meal shall be charged on our room bill. I saw that they charged us 2 extra complete breakfast sets where in fact we only ordered and ate 2 cups of fried rice –meaning without butter+jam and toasts, coffee/tea and viand.. WE ONLY ORDERED AND ATE EXTRA FRIED RICE!  Despite my efforts in explaining the scenario, I thought my view was noted but I was wrong.

THIS SH*T HAPPENS WHEN USE OF ENGLISH LANGUAGE IS A RARITY IN A COUNTRY!  (read : I am not fluent myself, but most people if not all, can speak and understand English from my country, the Philippines! And I am damn proud of it–google translate: Kahit karpintero o tricycle driver marunong ng is-was-were sa Pinas; minsan fluent pa sila!)

On our last day, when I was about to settle the hotel bill, I found out the food people really charged us with 2 entire breakfast sets instead of 2 cups of freaking fried rice! Although, the receptionist at the front desk understands English and the situation completely, I still ended up mildly straining my larynx again in elaborating that it’s not an issue of price or cost (it’s so affordable at only B70 or RM 7 = PhP 78 per set meal and B20 or RM 2 =PhP 28 per cup of rice), but how efficient you are in delivering your service. They did nothing and still asked me to pay what we didn’t eat. I asked the front desk lady to take extra efforts next time in avoiding the same thing to happen again with other guests. Training of staffs would help.

Poor Customer Service is a Pure Insult to Paying Customers!

Sayang lang, gusto ko pa naman ang sign boards ninyo….

Enough… Let us not spoil the memories of our days in Hat Yai.

After that eventful breakfast, we hopped in the same tuktuk we hired the previous day and continued the Hat Yai tour.

Tuktuk or taxi in Hat Yai... hop in!

I guess everyone will agree with me that no trip to any parts of Thailand is complete without Buddhist temple visit. I opted to include in our itinerary the Wat Hat Yai Nai, the shrine of the reclining Buddha which is said to be the 3rd largest in the world (so would that make the one in Penang, the fourth and the one in Kelantan, Malaysia the fifth? Can anyone confirm?).

This frequently visited shrine is located on Phetchakasem Road, near Saphan Khlong U-Taphao, Hat Yai.  The image of the Enlightened One is said to measure 35 metres long, 15 metres tall and 10 meters wide.

One of my colleagues who hails from Yangon, Myanmar told me that the images of Buddha depicted in reclining or somewhat in near-sleeping position show his peace prior to his death. How many of us can face death peacefully? *pass muna ako dyan, di ba ako ready sa death, bata pa anak ko, hehe!*
Few photo ops in Wat Hat Yai Nai, a scoop of dirty ice cream for Gabby and several kilometers from the Hat Yai City Center (it took us an hour to get to our next stop, passing through highway without traffic jam at all!), following the itinerary that I made, our friendly Thai tuktuk driver (who also barely speaks English), brought us to another frequently visited spot in Southern Thailand –Samila Beach in the province of Songkhla that covers the city of Hat Yai.
Samila Beach is a famous place for weekend getaway particularly for families who like to unwind and enjoy the sea breeze and the sun, both local and tourist alike.
Forgive me for being too lazy to know the significance of the statue of the Golden Mermaid in Samila Beach to Buddhist people of Songkhla.

The family behind Beyond Toxicity in Copenhagen, Denmark --toinks! *wishful thinking!*

Samila Beach is a welcoming respite when you get tired of shopping from Hat Yai City Center.  I regret the fact that I did not allow Gabby to try flying a kite there because the heat from the sun was unforgiving but nonetheless, there’s wind.
There will be a next time, son and other places to fly kite.
A couple of weeks back when I was googling details about Hat Yai, I was surprised to know that some Thai people also believe in legends and myths. Proof to this is the solid brass monument of the Golden Mermaid and few meters away from her statue, also along the shoreline of Samila Beach is the brass monument for the Cat and the Mouse.
There are islands across Samila called, Mouse Island, Cat and Dog Island.  The myth has it that someone decided to bring pets at home as he sailed across the sea. When he heard something about a magical crystal, among the 3 pets he had, he chose the mouse to secure the magical crystal for him; this explains the brass monument of the Cat and the Mouse. If you’re wondering what happened to the dog and it was not in the tableaux, according to the legend, the dog died. End of story (lame excuse for lack of research, hehe!).
LUNCH TIME! What can be more appropriate to eat by the beach on a sunny afternoon but seafoods!
Here’s our feast!

Thai Seafood Mango Salad : Spicy? you bet!

I liked this starter. With generous serving of Thai Mango Salad fused with variety of fried sweet and sour seafoods topped with mildly roasted cashew nuts; a bit spicy for our palates. What else do you expect, welcome to Thailand!
Prawn Soup : It could have been more acceptable to my taste buds if they did not add roots (looked like ginseng!) and spices that I am unfamiliar with.
Sweet and Sour Tiger Prawn : OK, lah!
The winner dishes for me were the fried sea bass and steamed crabs. *pass the vinegar, please!*  yum! :)
The tuktuk driver (with his son) offered to buy a local appetizer that appeared to me as a pasty and spicy one; my family refused of tasting. I have dunked my fork to it twice out of courtesy and gratitude to his friendly gesture. It was indeed, spicy! My tongue easily surrendered.
We left Samila Beach satiated and smiling…
It was past 2PM when we left the dampa-like restaurant (seafood resto by the beach) in Samila Beach. I didn’t say no when the tuktuk driver suggested for us to go to Tang Kuan Hilltop. Without a clue of what’s in store for us (remember, he speaks little English only), we got off his tuktuk and walked towards the Lift Station.
We paid a minimal entrance fee for the lift that took us uphill. After riding an elevator for about 3 minutes to that steep hill, the view offered us a 360 degree-appreciation of the entire Songkhla province.
It’s breathtaking!
My captures don’t give justice to its actual beauty.
Imagine enjoying gloriouy Thai sunset at this Hilltop…

The view's the best, but the sun was at its best too! :(

The Hilltop is also a site of veneration to Buddha…

What do you call these bells for prayers?

Now this quote on the Hilltop is too difficult to observe, agree?

It was almost 4 in the afternoon when we went down from the Hilltop, and since I asked the tuktuk driver (forgive me, I forgot to note his name!) to drop us off at a money changer to exchange few more ringgit to baht, I decided not to bring my family to Hat Yai Municipal Park. Honestly, by doing so, I regret now not having even a single photograph alongside the Laughing Buddha in the Municipality Park of Hat Yai :(

After going to the money changer, we were brought back to the hotel; spent an hour refreshing up then we went out for an early light dinner.

Mcdonald's Samurai PORK burger : Have you tasted one? Do you like it? I don't.

My excitement to try Mcdonald’s Samurai PORK burger went downhill when I found out that there’s nothing special about its taste after taking the first bite. The sauce inside the bun was far something that I will like. It was not that I am partial with beef burger (sure I am!) but this pork burger that probably is present only in Hat Yai (is it?) didn’t meet my expectations.

I remember I was also disappointed in Mcdonald’s Hat Yai because their Coca cola cups aren’t refillable unlike in Penang. Yes, here in Penang, it’s drink all you want Coke in all Mcdo branches, isn’t that great? *Imagine kung sa Starbucks drink all you want din?* LOL! :)

After Mcdo, we decided to watch Captain America in one of the malls in Hat Yai that’s walking distance from our hotel. Unfortunately, Captain America in Hat Yai also doesn’t speak English! Oh Well!


Out of disappointment that the movie we wanted to see was dubbed in Thai (FYI, in Penang –English movies are shown in English with only Malay and Chinese subtitles which for me is far better), instead of spending B120 (RM12) for a movie we won’t understand, we settled and just drowned ourselves to a better option–Thai local sweet delicacies, we so liked it!

These Thai delicacies are so similar to our local kutsinta, cassava cake, and other rice cakes! yummy!

Then few steps more just before getting to our hotel, we bought fresh fruits from this street stall…

That ended our tour in Hat Yai.  We decided the next morning to just stay in the hotel and be early at the pick up point of our van back to Butterworth, Penang.
All in all, I found Hat Yai as an overlooked spot by most tourists and travelers who only consider the mostly visited Thai destinations such as Bangkok, Phuket,and Chang Mai over this city at the Southern part of Thailand. There are really more to explore even in less popular places such as Hat Yai. It has the same feel and ambiance of Bangkok but less traffic congestion. Now, I understand why it’s one of the favorite weekend getaway places of most Chinese-Malaysians and some Singaporeans not only because of its proximity to the borders of the two countries (Thailand-Malaysia) but there are really a lot of reasons to visit, go back and enjoy Hat Yai. The possibilities are just endless.
23
Jun
11

LEAVE MY FAMILY ALONE!

This is my blog; my personal virtual home for 4 years now. If you have a problem with me and/or my blogging, by virtue of freedom and free will, you have the right to leave this site.

Just because I am silent doesn’t mean I am weak.

My family is hurting because some poor souls have been tormenting us. Imagine, even our 6-year-old son, Gabby has been called, Batang X for reason unknown to us. LEAVE OUR INNOCENT SON ALONE! Parents like Tina and I can bear their blows despite lack of proofs, but our hearts have been crushed after our son has been involved!

These people dared to post on their facebook walls and commented on their friends’ ridiculous fb posts heartless words that maligned my family and I severely last Father’s Day, June 19, 2011. Although they did not directly named us, it was crystal clear that they’re referring to me, Tina and Gabby. Hindi ako insecure at inggit sa inyo, hindi nga ako topnotcher sa Medicine Boards, hindi man ako scholar noong nag aaral ako, hindi nga ako sintalino ninyo,PERO HINDI AKO BASTOS AT DUWAG GAYA NINYO! Marunong akong gumalang sa bata at nakatatanda. Despite my parents’ imperfections, they raised me and my brothers well with respect and manners.

The truth is, these people are like dogs without balls, they only know how to bite and bark at you from your back.

My valued readers know that I rarely post rant particularly about worthless individuals who, because of their worst attitude do not deserve to be given importance. But enough is enough.

What will you do when people suspect you of being a traitor to fellowmen, a spy of the management and other evil things despite the fact that they cannot present a single tangible evidence to prove their cheap words?

What will you do when people invade your parenthood by provoking you on their facebook walls that you should prioritize your son’s education instead of your personal happiness which they equated to few of our travels and hotel-dining? If you are a parent yourself (which they are not as of the moment), you know that everything revolves around our children; and I for one, have not gone to any trips alone, nor dined in hotels without my wife and our kid. It’s none of your business whether we eat in premier hotels or wherever!

Hindi kami nagpapalibre sa inyo sa hotel o saan man, Hindi kami nakikialam sa mga pinag gagastusan nyo, kaya tigilan nyo kami!

I do not need to explain to anyone that Gabby will start schooling here in Penang on August. If these unpleasant people are as wise as they think of themselves, they should have thought that it’s no longer their business if and when Tina and I, or whoever parent for that matter, decide to make their child/ren stop schooling, even for 10 years! WALA KAYONG PAKIALAM SA PAMILYA NAMIN!

Sa susunod na may paratang kayo, siguraduhin nyo na may ebidensya kayo! Sa susunod na may gusto kayong sabihin, sabihin nyo ng diretso, hindi parang wala kayong bayag na sa likod namin kayo nagtatawanan at nagsasalita laban sa amin!

GAGAWA KAYO NG KALOKOHAN LABAN SA MANAGEMENT TAPOS NGAYON MAGSUSPETSA KAYO SA AMIN!

Iyong isa babae pa naman, kung makapag mura sa facebook ang husay; mataas pa naman ang pinag aralan, palengkera din pala! (no offense meant to market vendors who may have better personalities than her).

MAGDASAL KAYO NG TAIMTIM NA WALANG GUMAWA NG GANYAN SA PAMILYA NYO, KUNG MAGKAKAANAK KAYO BALANG-ARAW!

I should have listened to my wife’s reminder long ago, “Mga katrabaho mo lang sila, hindi mo sila kaibigan!”

AS OF NOW, I AND MY WIFE HAVE NO INTENTIONS OF TALKING TO THEM, FOR WE KNOW WE CANNOT CHANGE THEIR ATTITUDES OVERNIGHT; THE SAME WAY THAT WE HAVE NO CONTROL TO WHATEVER THEY WANT TO BELIEVE, AND PEOPLE LIKE THEM USUALLY THINK THAT THEY ARE ALWAYS RIGHT! TALKING TO THEM NOW IS AS USELESS AS IT GETS!

What will you do when highly educated professionals look down on you as bobo as they can think?

I don’t care of what you think of me now, JUST LEAVE MY FAMILY ALONE!

MGA BASTOS KAYO, PATI BATA SINASALI NYO SA MGA KAWALANG HIYAAN NYO!  MGA BALIK-HARAP!

May God forgive me if I have cursed them that their souls should rot in hell!

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WE NEED PRAYERS TO BE STRONG, MORE THAN SYMPATHIES. THANK YOU.

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10
Jan
11

OF OEC AND PUBLIC SERVANTS

at the POEA last 28 December 2010, 6:58am with Oversease Exit Clearance form # 302 and my passport

If you must know, our government in Pinas requires all Overseas Filipino Workers who go on leave and/or vacation from their work site abroad to secure Overseas Exit Clearance (OEC) from Philippines Overseas Employment Agency (POEA) and pay applicable fees to Overseas Workers’ Welfare Administration (OWWA) before they can be allowed to leave our terminals and report back to work abroad. The total fees for that OEC amount to PhP 2084.18 (POEA processing fee of PhP 100, OWWA membership PhP 1084.18 and PHILHEALTH PhP 900; I and my colleagues paid everything despite we have PHILHEALTH membership from our previous employers).

THE EXPERIENCE OF AN OEC FIRST TIME APPLICANT. After I left the country to be a Medical Lecturer in a University-College in Penang, Malaysia in 29 July 2010, I was very excited to come home (with my wife and kid as they spent 2-week-break in Penang prior to Xmas) to Pinas and spend a week-long days off.

Having briefed by fellow Filipino MDs who have gone home several times, of what to do and how to secure OEC, I thought I knew what to expect. Still, I was astonished by the volume of OFWs who trooped to POEA that same day as I applied for my OEC.

I arrived at POEA at 6:58AM on Tuesday, 28 December 2010 and the security guard handed my OEC application form number 302. At that early, there were already 301 OFWs who came before me; amazing! :(   Apparently, because most Filipinos of course would prefer to celebrate Christmas and New Year holidays at home.

So I queued and when permitted to enter the waiting area inside, I saw the crowd. Nabanggit ko sa sarili ko, “Ang dami nga pala talagang nagtatrabaho sa ibang bansa at kabilang na ako doon!” (I realized that there are a lot of Filipinos working abroad and that includes me already!).

In fairness to POEA officials, the process was organized that day, however they have to make room for more improvements particularly on the attitude of few of them.

An old lady (perhaps on her late 50s) officer at the Evaluation window yelled several times to first few OEC applicants. Goodness gracious, aren’t she aware that we’re the so-called Bagong Bayani? that we’re contributing to the economy of our country as dollar-earners? that our taxes pay their salaries?

To consider that it was early morning, being reprimanded on top of her voice can really ruin your whole day. And so I prepared my counter statement should I’d be yelled at too. hehehe :D Hindi uubra sa akin yun! But thank God she smiled at me when I approached her window as my number  was called after 2 and a half hours of waiting!

I hate to think that my profession made her tone down a bit because I believe they should render their service equally to the public, regardless whether you’re a domestic helper, seaman, doctor, lecturer abroad.

I completed the process of securing OEC (evaluation, assessment, payment) in 2 and a half hours. I saw my colleagues from Penang who came in late that morning still waiting for their numbers to be called outside the building. FYI, they finished at around 4PM. Imagine, they were there almost the whole day! As one of them put it, “Isang araw na dapat kasama ang pamilya na minsan lang makita, kukunin pa nila!”

I appeal to those public officials serving not only OFWs but kapwa-Pinoys in general to kindly render their work with a smile. It definitely helps when you perform with friendliness, efficiency, accuracy and speed.

The same goes to those who are in the Immigration counters, pakibilisan lang po ang serbisyo lalo na sa mga Pinoy na pagod galing sa biyahe.

yun lang po.

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