Archive for May, 2007

24
May
07

REALITY BITES

I’D JUST WANT TO SHOUT OUT THAT  I’M NOT OMNIPOTENT AND I HAVE MY FLAWS AND SHORTCOMINGS.  IT’S A CLICHE TO SAY THAT TO ERR IS HUMAN, BUT IT’S TRUE. WHO’S PERFECT ANYWAY ?  ANYONE WHO THINKS HE’S PERFECT DESERVES A MONUMENT, A MEMORIAL, OR  A CATHEDRAL.

TO MOCK A PERSON’S LIMITATION DIRECTLY WITH STRONG IMPLICATIONS AND BEYOND REASONS IS FAR FROM BEING ETHICAL. ACTUALLY, TO SAY THAT IT IS UNETHICAL IS AN UNDERSTATEMENT.

      

23
May
07

IN THE NAME OF THE FATHER

Receiving recognition from others is healthy. It makes us satisfy Abraham Maslow’s hierarchy of human needs – which includes self esteem. With utmost humility, I always get some good praises from students. Being an instructor of Medical Surgical Nursing in a college which is located somewhere in the middle of Quezon City and Manila for 3 years now, improved me to become a better person. It’s a fulfilling job. I get to influence young minds, encourage them to challenge themselves and exert more to the best of their abilities. In return, few of them despise me, ofcourse no one can please everybody but more often than not, majority of them appreciated my efforts. I’d like to believe that their high regards to my job are sincere and true.

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I did not pursue my medical training into specializing in a particular field for some reasons. Practical-wise, it’s not that rewarding. But given a chance to have financial stability, i would still pursue it in no time. For now, I am just an ordinary doctor who did not go into residency training (yet). But nevertheless, the MD that comes after my surname still attracts respect from others, again giving myself a boost.

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But it’s not that being a doctor or an educator satisfy me the most. But rather being a simple father to my son gratifies me to the highest hierarchy in the pyramid of Maslow. Being a dad gives me the opportunity to raise a life, mold him into a person who is God-fearing and equipped with moral values. The greatest challenge that I have as a parent, which I share with my wife, is to raise Gabby (and our future children) as better as he (they) can be. We’re not dreaming of having children of superior human beings, but just to be content with healthy, and happy kid(s).       

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I may not be the best mentor to my students. I may not be a good doctor  or a good husband. Neither I am a diligent son nor a dutiful brother  but I’m trying my best to be a better dad to my son Gabby. I am thankful for good comments and high regards from students, colleagues, and some patients before but what is more important to me than those is to see Gabby smile and to hear him say he loves his Tatay-doc.

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                          ADVANCE HAPPY FATHERS’ DAY TO ALL DADS.

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22
May
07

TEST-TAKING TIPS

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I’m a bit okay now. Moving on, here’s a list of  test-taking tips for my former students and reviewees who are about to take the local and foreign nursing boards. These tips were sourced from a review book of Rinehart, Sloan and Hurd.

1. TAKE DEEP BREATHS AND IMAGINE YOURSELF STUDYING IN YOUR FAVORITE LOCATION. -Take small item with you that you have had with you during your study time.

2. READ THE QUESTIONS AND ALL ANSWERS CAREFULLY. -Don’t jump to conclusions too quickly.

3. LOOK FOR KEYWORDS. -Avoid answers that include the word ALWAYS, NEVER, ALL, EVERY, ONLY, MUST, NO, EXCEPT, or NONE.

4. WATCH FOR SPECIFIC DETAILS. -Avoid vague answers. Look for adjectives and adverbs.

5. ELIMINATE ANSWERS THAT ARE CLEARLY WRONG OR INCORRECT. -Eliminating any incorrect answers increases the probability of selecting the correct answer by 25%.

6. LOOK  FOR INFORMATION GIVEN WITHIN THE ANSWERS.

7. LOOK FOR THE SAME OR SIMILAR WORDING IN THE QUESTION AND THE ANSWERS.

8. WATCH FOR GRAMMATICAL INCONSISTENCIES. -Subjects and verbs should agree, meaning singular subject, singular verb, or plural subject, plural verb. If the question is an incomplete sentence, the correct answer should complete the question in a grammatically correct manner.

9. DON’T READ INTO QUESTIONS.  -Reading into the question can create errors in judgment. If the question asks for an immediate response or PRIORITIZATION of action, choose the answers that is CRITICAL to the life and safety of the client.

10. MAKE AN EDUCATED GUESS. -If you’re unsure after carefully reading the question and all the answers, choose the answer with the most information.

21
May
07

DYSPHORIC

I know it is ironic.

After having a weekend of celebrations of LIFE, – attending a god daughter’s birthday-costume party, a baptism for another god son and a homecoming of a friend, after visiting another friend in a hospital after her delivery which was bringing LIFE literally, I suddenly felt gloomy. Allow me to emphasize that it’s not related to those events that we attended, but it was basically me. Whenever life’s hassles come on to me and hit my senses, it can suddenly change my mood from simple bliss to mushy depression.

Who in the whole wide world doesn’t have any problem ? It’s a part of LIFE, i know. It comes and goes. And part of LIVING is to know how to face life’s trials, to learn how to  find solutions to those challenges. But it is also human nature to feel depressed, anxious, dysphoric sometimes.

And so i dwell in the state of dysphoria today. Perhaps after a nap, or a little prayer, i’ll feel everything’s better again. 

 

20
May
07

L A T E R

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How could you come with me
when you knew all along that you had to go
How could you watch me sleep so close to you
pretending not to know
How could you memorize my name
and forget who i am
How could you think you’re still the same
believing i can

Chorus:

It’s too late to start pretending
It’s too late for a new beginning
Later than the sunset, later than the rain
Later than I never to love you again

How could you ask for more with an innocent smile
trusting me to stay
How could you close the door and leave me here
supposing i’m ok
How could you breakdown my disguise
and uncover my fears
How could you look into my eyes
ignoring my tears

( Repeat Chorus )

18
May
07

TRAVELING

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As I’m blogging this, my parents and my brother with his wife and kids are in Hong Kong for a 4-day-vacation. They left yesterday morning for a much needed break especially for my mom and my sibling who are working God-knows-how. My wife, my son and I ( and my other brothers – I’ve 3 brothers) did not join them not only because we’re (that include my mom) on a tight budget these days but also for the fact that we were just in Hong Kong few months ago. We already had photos with Disneyland’s royalties. But ofcourse it would be happier if we could have join the trip with them to complete the casting.

Who doesn’t love traveling ? Probably only people who are agoraphobic, anti-social or suffering from autism or whathaveyou, may see it as a no essential part of life. But not for me.  Traveling is always FUN and exciting.  Regardless of where your feet will lead you, here or abroad, near or far, I always find myself enjoying every minute of it.  It doesn’t only gives one a chance of seeing other places , but to literally experience the moment of being in other places away from hassles of daily life.

My ultimate dream besides having continuous blessings of health and happiness, safety of /for my family ( and ofcourse WORLD PEACE ! ) is to get a chance to travel the globe. By how, i don’t know yet. Whether it’s by chance (Okay, I know that I may not have it if I will not bet a peso in Lotto) or by gratifying myself and my family someday – YEARS from now, it will be probably the most satisfying earthly craving of a lifetime. Would’nt you want to have your photos taken at most monuments and fountains standing around the world?  Especially in countries in Europe where everywhere is a photo-op.

In my 30 years of existence, I have been fortunate to travel ( for leisure, less the bragging ) in few countries abroad. From Hong Kong in 1998, to US tour in 2000 in California (Los Angeles, San Diego, San Francisco, Fresno) to Las Vegas, to Bangkok, Thailand, Brunei Darussalam (had an overnight stay as a "stop over" to NZ but got a chance to have a half-day city tour of Bendar Seri Begawan), to 45-minute-airport-stay in Brisbane,Australia (again, as a "stop over" during flight to NZ) to a  7-week-stay in Auckland, New Zealand in April – June of 2005. And the last trip was in Hong Kong again, New Year’s day of 2007. In every travel, I keep souvenirs – simple things like boarding pass, tickets, branded tissue paper of different establishments, photos and picture frames with name of the place ofcourse, and as an influence of my wife, we collect snow globes and fridge magnets from every places we’ve been to.

Locally, I have been to Ilocos Norte and Sur ( from Pagudpud, Laoag, Paoay, Baccara, Sarat, Batac, Vigan, Candon ), La Union, Baguio, Subic, Cavite, Batangas, Laguna, Tiaong in Quezon. And in Cebu (twice for accompanying mom’s work before), Roxas City in Capiz ( recently for my own work) in the Visayas and Cagayan de Oro and Davao in the southern parts of the country.

I may not have traveled or toured that much yet compared to others who have all the money in the world to spend, or I may not have boarded a luxury cruise ship yet  to one destination to another, but heck, I enjoyed all of those few travels I had to the fullest and still keep the experience intact as good as new in my memory bank. 

Till my next travel… SIGH.

18
May
07

BEAUTIFUL IN MY EYES

by : JOSHUA KADISON

You’re my peace of mind in this crazy world.
You’re everything I’ve tried to find, your love is a pearl.
You’re my Mona Lisa, you’re my rainbow skies,
and my only prayer is that you realize
you’ll always be beautiful in my eyes.

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The world will turn and the seasons will change,
and all the lessons we will learn will be beautiful and strange.
We’ll have our fill of tears, our share of sighs.
My only prayer is that you realize
you’ll always be beautiful in my eyes.

You will always be beautiful in my eyes.
And the passing years will show
that you will always grow more beautiful in my eyes
   

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When there are lines upon my face form a lifetime of smiles,
and when the time comes to embrace for one long last while,
we can laugh about how time really flies.
We won’t say goodbye ’cause true love never dies.
You’ll always be beautiful in my eyes.

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You will always be beautiful in my eyes.
And the passing years will show
that you will always grow more beautiful in my eyes.
The passing years will show that you will always grow
ever more beautiful in my eyes.




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